Melding together with DD at the core

I went to work late as I had some stuff to attend to. Then J messaged me and asked me if I had left the house unlocked so he could go over. I had not. He came to work, got the key, went to my house, let himself in and cleaned the house for me. When I got home, I was unusually tired so he had me lay down while he cleaned. The kids came home and he got them to clean their rooms. Everyone kept coming in and out of my room and I didn't get any rest. I got up and J and I cleaned my room. Then I rested for a bit and made dinner. After dinner, I went to lay down and he said I had to sit with him. I was tired and did not feel good, so I called him a "vaca" jokingly. He came in and put me over the end of the bed, pulled down my panties and started spanking me with his hand, hard. He asked me repeatedly what that meant, and I  kept telling him it meant "wonderful boyfriend." Which, um, it does not. He kept spanking me and demanded that I tell him. I told him the trut

This weekend, J and I took the kids to see my parents, a few hours away. The kids and I slept on the floor in the living room of their tiny house, and J slept in a tent outside, due to a lack of space. My parents support our DD dynamic, so they were happy to watch the kids inside while J took me to the tent for corrections. He brought implements, and tore my butt up friday night for my attitude. I tried to do better, but we got in a tiff and I took off when he told me not to leave. He got mad. We both calmed down and he got the devil loop and lit into my butt. I was bawling by the time he was done. Today, Sunday, I have not gotten any spankings, other than a few hard ones with his hand over my skirt for standing on top of the railing of a 7 story building and balancing on it. LOL. I like to walk on the wild side! :) My rear end is sore and covered in welts from a very firmly applied cane and devil loop from my correction Saturday night. It was so embarrassing to get my butt ha

Today has not been a good day. From the time J arrived at my house at 3:30, til he left at 8, I was spanked 4 times! Not little swats... full on bare-bottom, over the bed spankings. The first one was for not doing as I was told. He asked me to look for something and I forgot. He decided some time with the paddle will help me remember next time. Then I was playing around and swatted him hard on the leg with a wooden spoon. This was disrespectful and earned me a session with the devil loop. OUCH Then I got spanked for not cleaning the kitchen after dinner.. And right after that I got a doozy because I lied to him earlier today. Because I confessed it wasn't as bad as it could have been, but I am SO sore now. And discouraged. I think I'm a pretty good, responsible adult, but FOUR spankings in one day? Some days I wonder if I will ever get to the point where spankings are rare.

We have progressed well together as a couple and in our DD since my last post. J is coming into a family, I mean, I have 2 kids I have raised by myself for 7 years... so we are a family unit. He is coming into that. My son LOVES him and is nothing but happy. He loves having a man around the house, and J is so hands on. He helps them, gets them to help out, plays constantly, but guides as well. He is a great guy. My daughter is, well, slower to accept him. She likes him okay, but is more resistant to having someone join our family. It has been tougher with her. She likes to stay in her room and read, play on her kindle and veg. She leaves her door open at my request, and I have noticed him popping in there from time to time, just to say "Hi." He also figured out her favorite show is Big Bang Theory, so he will turn that on in order to coax her out of her room. I have been assured that the bond will come, in time. She's at a difficult age. Okay, okay, you say, but w

     Today was the last day of summer vacation. The kids and I hung out around the house, sleeping lots and not doing much. We took a trip to the store. I took my son to soccer practice, to find out it had been cancelled without notice. Such a bummer! J came over after work. He walked in and asked me if I wanted him to cook dinner. Swoon! I told him I had it under control, and he settled on the couch to play video games with my son while I cooked bacon & eggs.       In the middle of cooking, my daughter did something unacceptable and I had to deal with it. I asked J to keep an eye on the bacon, and went and dealt with it. I was disgruntled, frustrated and off my game afterward. I grumpily made dinner but was too upset to eat. J said he was waiting for me to eat dinner. I told him I wasn't hungry. He raised his eyebrow and asked me if I was cooking enough for me later. I turned, jiggled my belly and said, "Does THIS look like I have missed many meals?" This is a big n

Hi, I'm Em. I'm a single mom in my thirties. I have fallen head over heels with J, who is my HoH. We are living separately at the moment, but intend to marry and live together very soon. I have two children from a previous marriage, J has none. We are both eager to get to the point where we are ready to have a baby of our own. We have a domestic discipline (DD) relationship. He is HoH (head of household) and I am TiH (taken in hand). I will blog about my journey into this life, day to day happenings, ideas and thoughts about DD, and whatever else comes to mind. I hope you will join me on my journey!