Over.

J and I are over. Probably forever. Some awful stuff happened last week and I broke stuff off with him. Like assault bad. Anyway, I am still thinking things over,  trying to decide if the problems stemmed from the fact that I'm trying to make him be someone he's not. I don't know, honestly. My heart is so sad. I will probably not post much for a few weeks as I process what I need to and decide where we are going from here. Probably nowhere. :(

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